the marriage thing
“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.” ― Oscar Wilde , The Picture of Dorian Gray Some of my readers would think this topic is ridiculous since it is very common here in Indonesia to get married in their golden ages remembering the society seems to push the idea of marriage anyway. But I always asked myself whether I wanted to be married or not, while my answers mostly no (well, I don't know if someone might change my mindset years to come). I know that there are pros&cons and I don't mind if anyone wants to state his arguments towards mine, please feel free to say anything in the comment section down below. Thus, according to a website called Psychology Today, marriage is the process by which two people make their relationship public, official, and permanent . It is the joining of two people in a bond that putatively lasts until death , but in practice is often cut short by separation o